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Funerals & Memorial Services
TO NOTIFY WHITE’S CHAPEL OF A DEATH, PLEASE CALL THE PASTOR-ON-CALL AT 817-881 2124 OR CARE & SUPPORT AT 817-481-4147, X219.
The Christian funeral is a service of worship in which God’s people witness to their faith in the hope of the Gospel, the communion of saints, the resurrection, and in which the assurance of God’s love and salvation in Christ is ministered, especially to the Christian bereaved. A funeral or memorial service at White’s Chapel United Methodist Church is worship of the living God. The funeral is God’s way of bringing comfort to the hearts of those who mourn as Scripture is reflected upon, prayer is offered, grief is expressed, and remembrance is cherished. It is an occasion in which we celebrate life and the promise of resurrection. The presence of family and friends at this time supports and strengthens those who mourn. The service gives voice to the community which gives thanks for the life of the one who is deceased, and learns the valuable lessons for life through death. Thus, in the Christian funeral, we gather to worship God and confess our faith in a living Savior. Though we mourn our loss and remember our loved one, our eyes are firmly fixed on Jesus, the One in whom our hope is fixed. It is our desire that the following materials will serve as a source of information which will be a guide for what is often an overwhelming experience of making arrangements for one whom we love. May the peace of the Lord and the assurance of God’s promise of eternal life through faith in Jesus Christ be with you always. FUNERAL AND MEMORIAL SERVICE PLANNING AND HELPFUL RESOURCES FOR FAMILIES FOLLOWING THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE. Columbarium Services at White's Chapel
For many of us, the time of stress and grief following the death of a loved one is
compounded by the need to make funeral and cemetery arrangements in a short period of time. Because of this, pre-planning has become a thoughtful gift to ease the burden on those left behind. Although it may not be something you have yet considered, establishing a permanent resting place and memorial location is important not only for the deceased but also for friends and family for generations to come. In an era when people might call many different cities “home” over a lifetime, it can be difficult to choose a location that is poignant and meaningful. In response to these needs, inurnment in the White’s Chapel Columbarium provides members of White’s Chapel and their families the opportunity to choose the shadow of the church, which has been central to their lives, as their final resting place. The church is a source of peace and support throughout all stages of our lives, and we pray that this beautiful, spiritually powerful memorial will serve as a wonderful location for friends and family to gather in remembrance and reflection long into the future. View or Download Columbarium Documents: Columbarium Brochure Welcome Letter Columbarium Pricing Columbarium Rules, Policies, and Regulations View of Columbarium Sections (*Please Fill Out and Return with Payment) *Columbarium Application *Niche Sections Form *Niche Inscription Form Memorial Wall Inscription Application Contact Update Form WC Campus Map Support Groups Open Hearts Support Group
Second Thursday of each month, 6 p.m. Center for Spiritual Care Living Room UPDATE: Now on Summer break, back at WC September 9! The Open Hearts group at WCUMC is an affirming support group for family, friends and members of the LGBTQIA community. We believe that all God’s children are loved and welcomed in our church. We meet once a month on the second Thursday, from 6 to 8 p.m. in the Center for Spiritual Care living room. For more information contact Janice White. Moms Matter of Tarrant County: A Support Group for Parents of Deaf/HH Children
Meetings held on the Second Tuesday of Each Month | 7 to 8:30 p.m. Room 2233 UPDATE: Now on Summer break, back at WC September 14! Moms Matter of Tarrant County is a support group for parents of Deaf/Hard of Hearing children. We welcome families in any stage of their D/HH journey as we provide a safe space of encouragement, resources, and positive Deaf role models. This is an ASL interpreted support group. For more information, contact Rev. Lori Silvestri. Moms of Children with Special Needs Support Group
2nd and 4th Wednesdays, 10 a.m.-Noon, Meets at local parks UPDATE: Back at WC September 8! This group is for moms who have a child of any age with special needs. We share our experiences in our common journey of parenting a child with a disability while also learning about community resources, advocating for our children, parenting tools and spiritual care for mom. For child care needs and questions, contact Lori Silvestri at 704-737-0447. Alcoholism
Alcoholics Anonymous This is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. Meetings are held in the Center for Spiritual Care, garage side/east entrance (brick house). Daily meeting dates/times. General Information. Al-Anon Tuesdays at 6 p.m. and Thursdays at 5:30 p.m. in the Center for Spiritual Care This group helps families and friends of alcoholics recover from the effects of living with the addictive behaviors of a relative or friend. Meetings are held in the Center for Spiritual Care, garage side/east entrance (brick house). For information, call Nancy H. at 817-296-2863 or Deborah L. at 949-637-6714. Alzheimer's Disease
Alzheimer’s Support Group Third Tuesday of each month, 6:30-8 p.m. UPDATE: Back at WC starting June 15! Room 3201 This group is for caregivers dealing with loved ones with dementia. We share experiences while learning about available community resources and ways to cope with long-term caregiving. If you have friends or neighbors experiencing a dementia walk, please invite them to join us. For more information, contact Beth Benson at 817-416-9871 or Dana Pierce at 817-372-1077. Aging Parents
Children of Aging Parents Support Group (COAP) Second Tuesday of each month, 7-8:30. p.m UPDATE: Back at WC starting July 13! Room 2236 Children of Aging Parents (COAP) is a support group for adult children caring for their elderly parents. We share experiences, learn about community resources and ways to cope with long-term caregiving. For more information, contact Betsy Hay at 817-488-3121 or Cheryl Mart at 817-233-5442. Cancer
Christians Facing Cancer Support Group
Second Tuesday of each month, 6:30-7:30 p.m. | Room 2129 Christians Facing Cancer (CFC) is a support group for cancer patients, survivors, caregivers, friends, and family members. Anyone who has been affected by cancer (or is currently being affected by cancer) is invited to attend. For additional information, contact Kim King at 817-366-2826 or BJ Landers at 817-683-6088. 
Burton Gilliam
Tuesday, Sept. 14 | 6:30 p.m. Grace Chapel In June of 1972, Burton Gilliam, then serving as a firefighter in Dallas, answered an ad looking for extras for an upcoming movie. As he approached the Hilton hotel where the ad had directed him and saw the overwhelming multitude of other aspiring extras, Gilliam almost turned around and left. Instead, he put one foot in front of the other, headed inside, and took his first step into movie history. Throughout the day, Gilliam’s signature smile and unique voice impressed the production crew until he finally made it all the way to a meeting with the director, Peter Bogdanovich. The movie they were casting for was “Paper Moon” and by the time it was all said and done, Gilliam had landed a part with lines and screen time with the stars of the movie. A few months after the movie was released, Gilliam received a call from Mel Brooks with an offer of a role in his upcoming film “Blazing Saddles.” The rest, as they say, was history. With a career spanning over 23 years in the entertainment industry, Gilliam looks back on his time in Hollywood fondly and loves the notoriety he receives because of his movie roles. From his movie roles in “Paper Moon,” “Blazing Saddles,” “Back to the Future III,” and “Honeymoon in Vegas” to his TV appearances on shows like “The Waltons,” “Charlie’s Angels,” “The A-Team,” and “The Dukes of Hazard,” Gilliam’s authentic signature smile and his lilting drawl have made him an enduring favorite among actors, directors and fans alike. Now, Gilliam spends his time between promoting car dealerships, appearing at conventions, screening his classic movies, signing autographs, and speaking about his experience as an actor as well as his experience surviving cancer. Less than a year ago, Gilliam was diagnosed with throat cancer. He and his doctors caught it early and, after an aggressive treatment regimen, he is in what his doctors call a ‘maintenance phase.’ Gilliam’s cautious to say he’s “cured” because he knows the risks of the return of his cancer. With the help of his doctors, the support of his wife Susan, and his ongoing faith in God, Gilliam shared that he feels like, for now, he has “beat the snot out of cancer.” Burton Gilliam will share his experience and so much more when he speaks at Christians Facing Cancer. This free event will be held in Grace Chapel on Tuesday, Sept. 14 at 6:30 p.m. All are welcome. Grief Support
The Compassionate Friends Fourth Tuesday of each month, 7-8:30 p.m., Evans Hall 2129 Whether your family has experienced the death of a child (at any age from any cause) or you are trying to help those who have gone through this life altering experience, The Compassionate Friends exists to provide friendship, understanding, and hope to those going through the natural grieving process. All are welcome at this support group; registration is not required. For more information, contact Ginger Reynolds at 817-233-9326. Information about our local chapter. The Compassionate Friends is a non-profit 501C3 organization and your donations are welcome and appreciated. Understanding Your Grief
Begins Tuesday, Sept.7 | Room 2236 Two Tuesday classes to choose from: Noon to 1:30 p.m. or 6 to 7:30 p.m. Whether it has been recently, or some time has passed, the death of a loved one often leaves us feeling paralyzed and wondering how we can move forward. We want to personally invite you to attend one of these 11-week studies that uses scriptural wisdom to explore the pain and emptiness that accompanies grief. These studies approach the concept of grief with the understanding that each of us grieves differently, and in our own time and pace. The class will be helpful in offering specific coping strategies to guide people back to finding the fullness of life. If you or someone you know is grieving the death of a loved one, we invite you to join us. All are welcome. Join facilitator Christel Brymer as we follow Alan Wolfelt’s “Understanding Your Grief” book and Journal; both resources are available for purchase in our Circuit Writers bookstore. Each class is limited to 12 participants; individuals will only attend the class time he or she registers for. Each group is independent of the other (you cannot move between classes). Tuesdays at Noon: Tuesdays at 6 p.m.:
GriefShare Support Group
Wednesdays (Sept. 8 – Dec. 8) | 3:30 to 5:30 p.m. | Room 2236 The death of a loved one changes everything and often leaves us feeling confused, paralyzed, and hopeless, wondering how we can ever move forward. Join us for this 13-week Christ-centered study and support group, GriefShare. Meetings consist of video seminars featuring experts and others who are also experiencing grief, confidential discussion as a support group, and personal study and reflection. By offering GriefShare, White's Chapel seeks to provide a safe space to receive practical advice and explore Biblical principles that can offer hope and healing. Beginning Wednesday, Sept. 8, GriefShare will meet in room 2236, located on the second floor of Evans Hall. Each participant must have a workbook. The cost of a workbook is $15 and should be purchased online when you register and shipped directly to your address. Following the confirmation of your registration, you will receive an email providing a link to the videos and any additional group information. Surviving the Holidays in a Season of Loss
Thursday, Nov. 18 or Thursday, Dec. 9 6 to 8 p.m. in Walton Chapel The holidays can be difficult to navigate when you have lost someone or something important to you. How do you handle all the invitations and events of the holidays? How do you care for yourself? What if emotions are overwhelming? Each of us handles grief and loss uniquely in our lives. This event will offer ideas for walking through special times while we are grieving. Together, we will explore possible choices and options for managing grief and loss during the holidays. All are welcome and we look forward to seeing you. Each session is stand-alone and participants are welcome to join at any time during their journey. Registration is required at the links below to obtain the handout and/or to reserve childcare (infant-5yrs). Register for November 18: Register for December 9:
Care Ministries
If you would like to download and pray for individuals or families on our prayer list, please feel free to do so here:
Pastoral Care & Counseling There are seasons in all our lives when we struggle, when we hurt, when we encounter questions that defy answers. In these times, what we might need most is simply someone to listen, to care, and to offer wise and spiritual counsel – reminding us of God’s love and of God’s truth as contained in the Bible. Each of our pastors is trained to offer such care and support in personal counseling sessions. From marriage and family problems to deep theological questions, our goal is to meet the deep spiritual needs of our community. Flower Delivery Ever wonder what happens to Sunday’s altar flowers? White’s Chapel shares the beauty of these flowers with those who have been unable to attend Sunday services. Weekly, talented volunteers change the large arrangements into smaller arrangements and personally deliver the arrangements to individuals of our church community who are ill, in healthcare facilities, homebound or hospitalized. "Having the Conversation"
Thursdays, 6–7:30 p.m., via Zoom "Having the Conversation” will provide a safe place to learn and ask questions about a variety of death and dying issues. This four-week seminar, held on Thursday evenings, will address the following spiritual and medical issues surrounding death, planning the Christian funeral, and important legal decisions. There is no cost, and all are welcome. For more information, please contact Jeanne Ellermeyer, BSN, RN, FCN at 817-481-4147.
Card Care Ministry Members of this team write and send cards once a month to uplift and comfort those dealing with long-term illness, or those needing continued encouragement. White’s Chapel provides the cards and postage. Volunteers may perform this ministry from home. Meals in Time of Need If you can provide an occasional meal to members of our church community, Meals In Time of Need would like for you join their team. Volunteers of this ministry are compassion in action, as they extend the love of Christ through delivering meals as needed to those of our church community. Meal requests are sent via email from “MealTrain” where you can see the requests, the calendar and sign up online. Funeral Ushers Volunteers who serve as funeral ushers provide a warm, loving presence of Christ as they assist the officiating pastors, funeral director and families during the worship service celebrating the life of a loved one. Ushers, serving with the Coordinator of Care and Bereavement, greet, seat, and recess guests. Funeral Reception Hosts White’s Chapel may offer to host a reception to bereaved families, preceding or following a funeral/memorial service. Individuals serving on this committee provide a caring, comfortable atmosphere as the family and friends gather to share in a time together and a light snack. Working in conjunction with the Coordinator of Care and Bereavement, volunteer hostesses assist in the set up, serving, and cleanup for this ministry. The above ministries would not take place without our loving and dedicated volunteers. If you would like to serve in one of these ministries or know someone that is in need and would benefit from one of these ministries, please contact: Sunnie Flood Coordinator of Care and Bereavement Stephen Ministry (One-on-One Care) Stephen Ministers are trained lay people who have a heart for caring for the needs of their church members and neighbors. Through a one-on-one relationship, a Stephen Minister meets with a person who has a need for someone who can listen and provide caring support during a difficult period or crisis in one’s life. For more information, contact the church office at 817-481-4147 or email stephenministry@whiteschapelumc.com. Good Samaritans There are times individuals in our church community are unable to attend the activities or worship services at WC. This may be long term for a variety of reasons (i.e., illness, age, or recovery from surgery). Yet, with the support of our Good Samaritan volunteers, WC’s love of Christ is extended to the homebound, those in assisted living facilities and hospitals through personal visits. If you would like to become a Good Samaritan or know of someone who could benefit from a visiting Good Samaritan, contact the church office at 817-481-4147. One-on-One Care
Stephen Ministers at White’s Chapel are part of a larger organization of trained lay people who have a heart for caring for the needs of their church members and neighbors. Through a one-on-one relationship, an assigned Stephen Minister meets with a person who has a need for someone who can listen and provide caring support during a difficult period or crisis on one’s life. Sometimes this is for a short period of time and for others, it can be a longer term relationship. We realize that grief and loss come in many different ways to people and Stephen Ministers have the compassion, love and spiritual gifts to share during this difficult journey. Stephen Ministry is a Christian service with a strong focus on God’s love and spiritual encouragement. Female Stephen Ministers are always paired with female care receivers and likewise, male Stephen Ministers with male care receivers. Each care receiver can be assured of total confidentiality in the process. Some of the needs that Stephen Ministers seek to serve but are not limited to: · Hospitalized persons · Aging and elderly · Terminally ill · Those with disabilities and their families · Those moving into or out of our community · Those needing support of a Christian friend · Those facing transitions · Those separated or divorced · Homebound persons · Household experiencing birth, adoption, foster care · Those with job crises · Loss of a child or loved one For more information about the International Stephen Ministry program, please connect to their website: For more information about the White’s Chapel Stephen Ministry program:
Health & Wellness
Taking care of your mind, soul and body is important to us! We offer many exercise classes such as Stretch & Strengthen or Chair Yoga, as well as give you the chance to help others through donating blood or receiving a flu shot. WC Yoga in The Foundry
Mondays and Wednesdays from 11-11:45 a.m. Begins Monday, September 13 White’s Chapel yoga meets Mondays and Wednesdays from 11-11:45 a.m. in The Foundry. It is a gentle, yet comprehensive practice that focuses on joint mobility in the spine, shoulders, hips, and extremities. This class may increase your range of motion, reduce pain, alleviate stress, and improve your quality of life. We begin class with a Scripture and devotional, and end in prayer. The cost is $5 per class. For information contact Paula Wooters “Caring for You and Caring for Me while Living with Dementia”
Presented by Jaime Cobb, CAEd, VP of Dementia and Caregiver Education Thursday, November 4 at 6 p.m., AE Room 3103 The James L. West Center for Dementia Care will present a course which will discuss some common changes to expect as dementia progresses and the best ways to care for both the person living with the diagnosis and the care partners. Best practices discussed will include communication techniques, managing agitation, building resilience, and stress management. The West Center’s Education Team’s focus is to improve the lives and well-being of people living with dementia and their families by teaching families how to “live well with” rather than just “deal with” the disease. The West Center is a faith-inspired, not-for-profit organization that serves people impacted by dementia. As trusted experts, members of the organization provide specialized, innovative care and support for families as well as specialized education for caregivers, healthcare professionals, and the community at large. |
Meet the Pastor
Rev. Kyle Roberson
Pastor of Care and Support Rev. Kyle Roberson has served at White’s Chapel since 2012. Roberson has served in ministry within United Methodist churches for over 20 years. |
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